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Dave TheDruid-3X3

This is my First Samhain 3X3 Triad on such things. It is my 2006 Samhain 3×3 Triad of Wisdom. I have given copies of it to People who were dealing with such Loses in order to help them Heal.

It Goes:

Respects For The Dearly Departed:

How one Respects to the Dearly Departed:
– With Respect
– Admire their Achievements
– And Rejoice at having Known Them

Even if you did not Know them:
– They had a Impact on Nature,
– They were Agents of Change,
– Their Souls are also Creations of the Wheel of Life.

If the Dearly Departed Created Negative Emotional Energies:
– Those Energies are Recycled for Better Purposes for the Future,
– You can Cleanse It With Consecrated Holy Water,
– The Spaces which Spawned those Emotional Energies can be Purified.


One Feels Sorrow for the Loss because:
– You Miss their Influences in your Life
– The Circle that they were Part of is Broken
– You can not Benefit from their Help in Life

By Acknowledging their Achievements:
– You set an Example for the Future
– You are making a Promise to Preserve their Work
– And that you will carry on their Endeavours

When Rejoicing in having Know them:
– You are having Gratitude to the Goddess for having Created them
– You are Creating Good Karma for the Departed Soul
– You are Showing the Happiness they Gave to you


When Paying Respects to this Turn of the Wheel of Life:
– One should ask for Peace from the Sacred Quarters
– The Power of Deity is Sanctified
– That Reverence for Mother Nature is Acknowledged

By Setting an Example for the Future:
– You acknowledge the Lessons of the Past
– Using the Present Remembrance to Set the Example
– And with Good Example, the Future Preserved

During such Remembrance, the Soul is Refreshed by:
– The Refreshing Vibrations of Music
– The Quenching Affect of Drink
– And be Nourished with Good Food